https://blog.bufferapp.com/what-happens-to-our-brains-when-we-have-stage-fright-the-science-of-public-speaking

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Masjid Dha De, Mandir Dha De, Dha De Jo Kucch Dainda,
Par Kisi Da Dil Na Dhain, Rab Dilan Vich Rehnda

Tear Down The Mosque And The Temple; Break Everything In Sight
But Do Not Break A Person’s Heart, It Is There That God Resides

https://captureuniverse.wordpress.com/2009/12/08/few-words-of-bulleh-shah/




Buton Se Tujh Ko Umeedain, Khuda Se Naumeedi
Mujhe Bata To Sahi Aur Kafiri Kya Hai!

You pin your faith on idols vain and turn your back on Mighty God:
If this is not unbelief and sin, what else is unbelief and fraud?
http://iqbalurdu.blogspot.ca/2011/04/bal-e-jibril-045-nigah-e-faqar-mein.html



Sodagari Nahin, Ye Ibadat Khuda Ki Hai
Ae Be-Khabar! Jaza Ki Tamanna Bhi Chor De

This is not business, this is ‘ibadat of God!
O ignorant one, abandon the longing for reward also

http://iqbalurdu.blogspot.ca/2011/03/bang-e-dra-062-majnu-ne-shehar-chora-to.html



Quotes

Giving Back is not a Choice; But Rather; it's our Purpose! Make yourself irreplaceable. The hand that rocks the cradle, the procreator, the mother of tomorrow; a woman shapes the destiny of civilization. Such is the tragic irony of fate, that a beautiful creation such as the girl child is today one of the gravest concerns facing humanity. Victory can make history. 
Struggle and Success
Cooperation and team work is very important in life. Progress Sometimes Means Taking a Step Back To Get Better Traction. Respect for less privileged lives because they can do a lot of things for you. The greatest sacrifice is when you sacrifice your own happiness for the sake off someone else. Practice makes progress. Very rare hobby becomes your profession. Keep your creativity for yourself. When you feel alone in life, it will help you. Preserve your childlike innocence, smile, sense of humor. It will help you to deal with the world; tough and friendly. Life is a gift from parents. Treat gift with respect, grace to everyone. People will treat you according to their perception. Everyone is struggling in life 






Big dreams, big ideas, big wishes; work. But you will start with small steps. Celebrate small successes. Breakthrough doesn't come over night. You have to wait; sometimes longer, sometimes shorter. 
Best time investment plan; a couple in Pakistan (a rickshaw driver and his wife), had no kids. Now they are busy in educating youth girls (started from teaching sewing to youth girls free). Through kids, parents also get benefit of training and education. 

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/one-extremely-easy-way-more-grateful-vanessa-van-edwards/

https://www.robertholden.org/blog/10-steps-to-happiness/


Cykiq
Cykiq is a bicycle sharing system to breeze around easily in closed communities. Just download the application, scan the QR code and ride.

Nami koi bagher mushaqat nahi hua
So bar jab hqeeq kata tb nageen hua
Excuses need surgery; excuses are the only hurdle between what you are and what you want to be. 

Apni Dunya Ap Paida Kar Agar Zindon Mein Hai
Sirr-E-Adam Hai, Zameer-E-Kun Fikan Hai Zindagi

If you are among the living, fashion your own world;
Life is the secret of Adam, the essence of the words Be and it was!
http://iqbalurdu.blogspot.ca/2011/04/bang-e-dra-162-jawab-e-khizar.html

Knowing me, purpose of life and the Creator; these are three headlines of journey towards success. Alignment is needed in these three subjects. 
The first principle is that you must not fool yourself and you are the easiest person to fool. You have to cross mental blocks; ambition and believe is needed. From waiter to icon. Conducting not trainings, possibilitizing. Blessings are like ocean. Take out as much as you can. Universe is full of possibilities. Don't go with small spoon. Think of some jug, jar and permanent pipeline. We abandon ourselves with our limited thinking. Unwavering hope is required. Entrepreneurs use some madness filter; they only let positivity in, no more negativity. 25 00

Rich Dad
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4jP1OvrCxiU
Poor
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RMfatHM9c00
Inner Child
http://highexistence.com/find-your-inner-wisdom/

If you want to shine like a sun, first burn like a sun. Future of job, work and skills; work, learn and live is very distinctive way. We are now living in a smart machine age, digital transformation age. This is the 4th industrial revolution. 1) Carts and steam engine. 2) 100 years later electricity 3) 100 years later computer 4) Digital. New types of work with different skill is emerging with every change. 40-50 years span before now change is occurring in 6-7 months. There would be different type of jobs. Earlier market was designed by youth; luxury, fashion, brand. Now demand is for efficiency, not brand conscious, looks for speed, new entertainment. 6 30



If you want to shine like a sun, first burn like a sun. Future of job, work and skills; work, learn and live is very distinctive way. We are now living in a smart machine age, digital transformation age. This is the 4th industrial revolution. 1) Carts and steam engine. 2) 100 years later electricity 3) 100 years later computer 4) Digital. New types of work with different skill is emerging with every change. 40-50 years span before now change is occurring in 6-7 months. There would be different type of jobs. Earlier market was designed by youth; luxury, fashion, brand. Now demand is for efficiency, not brand conscious, looks for speed, new entertainment. Machine integration bringing smart concepts; 90 professionals work like robot and 10 show some behavioral difference (smart innovation). Integrated product requirement which uses all engineering skills together. Designer, artist, dreamer; put their skills together. Artificial intelligence, augmented and virtual reality, 3 D printing, 4 D printing, cloud computing, social media, machine learning, big data analysis would work. Machine processes are more reliable, work more hard. Car automation, 70 % electronics, body material full of sensors, seating ergonomics, cell phone GPS; new areas, new jobs. Web development and part development innovation integration. Agile multinational competition is there. Cancer, diabetes and other diseases in hospitals; 70% human resources have been replaced by automation. The remaining people have high end skills. 14 28


Imamat
http://iqbalurdu.blogspot.ca/2011/04/zarb-e-kaleem-049-imamat.html

https://www.linkedin.com/in/mcabbas/

Tariq Cheema
Founder, World Congress of Muslim Philanthropists | Convener, Global Donors Forum
Educate A Child Program   Salzburg Global Seminar

Hinsdale, Illinois 

Har Koi Mast-e-Mai-e-Zauq-e-Tan Asani Hai,
Tum Musalman Ho? Ye Andaaz-e-Musalmani Hai?

he love of ease, like fumes of wine makes sots of you today,
How dare you pass as Mussalmans? That is not Islam’s way?
http://iqbalurdu.blogspot.ca/2011/04/bang-e-dra-120-jawab-e-shikwa.html

Success Secret
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FrVeNlb9DPA
six secrets of success; eye control (bridging, Take control, transfer of information, getting involvement, let the other party speak more about his field, let him speak more and more, wow with body language, needs practice, move your in positive uttering, not negative uttering, traffic problems etc, only one negative would spoil the whole session, neck movement is proof of life, for neck movement you need a lot of positive energy - head nod technique; eye contact is very effective), mirroring (Minimal Praising; From a management perspective, praise requires minimal effort and no cost, yet is a highly effective motivator. People Work Harder If You Praise Others In Front of Them. Are you a miser with compliments? The Rule of Esteem; How Praise Releases Energy. Praise the deserving ones; friends, employees, relatives, spouse, true praise is scarce, vibration, anything) , pacing 16 00

Develop Your Problem Solving Nature
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=16Ila-muOec
Divert your attention from fear to bigger pain and problem. 

Specialized Knowledge - A Way to Success
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZKzZukP0ijQ
Hundred blows of goldsmith is comparable to one blow of iron-smith. There is difference between general knowledge and specialized skill. Be best in one field. Rickshaw driver, Paan Seller, Anand Kumar (born 1 January 1973) an Indian mathematician and a columnist for various national and international mathematical journals and magazines Super 30 program. Energy can only work in one field. Albert Einstein (14 March 1879 – 18 April 1955) was a German-born theoretical physicist who developed the theory of relativity, one of the two pillars of modern physics (alongside quantum mechanics). 
Steps to Become a Genius and Specialist; a) Curiosity; seeker of knowledge; books, references, thirst, training, learning, diligence, enthusiasm, passion, Craziness, Madness. 
Be father of your line and then see the results. 


How reading affects creativity and critical thinking
Learning new things is hard but still it's worth to go through these hardships of learning. We learn from our parents, teachers, peers. Words are a media to communicate with others. For some shy people who don't opt to become good speakers, writing is media for communication. Writing techniques include; organization,  sentence structure and focus. Reading is not only for pleasure, it also gives you chance of learning the tricks of the trade from masters. One can explore his abilities by writing short stories or something creative. Creative writing honors imagination. Start of creativity is not easy. Why should I do something (creative writing)? I hate it etc. How should I, why should I? Writing creative short stories need ideas. Normally ideas come from inspiration. Students in Libya have limited range of topics for creative writing as follows: 
Poverty; A means to lead main character to take up demeaning (causing someone to become or feel less respected) jobs - cooking, house cleaning. [The Hunger Games - Characters kill each other in order to win.]
Marriage; The main character is forced to give up on her loved one and marry someone else (richer or influential). [Pride and prejudice
Cancer; When a character is ill, this is the winning ailment (an illness, typically a minor one) - easiest route towards death. [My Sister's Keeper]
Car Accident; A means to get rid of the parents (want to kill them)!
Social Disputes; Inheritance, evil uncle, love triangles at school. [In the Country of Men]
This is structure of our culture. We need to think out of this cultural box. Our students have limited experience of practical life. So cannot expect much from them. 
Reading makes us able to write about mishaps and learning from them. We can easily learn about other cultures and implement their features very successfully. [Political chaos which affected the domestic life.]
An American converted to Islam, The struggle a Rwandan flee from civil war in early 90's, a creature stands against evil.
We have to start reading interesting books. Now you start writing; writing is not so simple. It would need a lot erase and rewrites. Story telling is an art. It allows you to translate your inner thoughts and perhaps your philosophy of life. That is why people enjoy reading. Generations can quote from the literature. '40 rules of love' author Elif Shafak quote, 'Isn't connecting people to distant lands and culture one of the strengths of good literature?'
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T0aMihhwKq4


Never give up. Today is hard, tomorrow will be worse, but the day after tomorrow will be sunshine.
Help young people. Help small guys. Because small guys will be big. Young people will have the seeds you bury in their minds, and when they grow up, they will change the world.
I think that when you 1 million dollars, that's your money. When you have 10 million dollars, that's when problem comes. You worry about inflation and this and that. When you have 1 billion dollars, that's the trust from others. That's not your money.


How Jack Ma Overcame His 7 Biggest Failures

1. Didn’t give up after failing many exams at school.

2. Scored 1 out of 120 points on the math portion of his college entrance exam.

3. Wasn’t deterred after being rejected from Harvard 10 times.

4. Stayed optimistic after being turned down for 30 jobs.

5. Was the only interviewee (out of 24) rejected by KFC.

6. Couldn’t convince Silicon Valley to fund Alibaba.

7. Told his 18 Alibaba partners that none of them could be execs.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lomKcSdMYtE
Aag Hai, Aulad-E-Ibraheem (A.S.) Hai, Namrood Hai
Kya Kisi Ko Phir Kisi Ka Imtihaan Maqsood Hai !
Tyrants and flames once more on Abraham’s race have glared:
For whom this new ordeal, or by whose hand prepared? 
http://iqbalurdu.blogspot.ca/2011/04/bang-e-dra-161-khizar-e-rah.html



Torh Deta Hai But-e-Hasti Ko Ibraheem-e-Ishq
Hosh Ka Daru Hai Goya Masti-e-Tasneem-e-Ishq

The Ibrahim of Love is the destroyer of the idol of existence
The ecstasy of Tasnim of Love is the cure of awareness.
http://iqbalurdu.blogspot.ca/2011/03/bang-e-dra-066-sawami-raam-tirath.html


Be-Khatar Kood Para Aatish-e-Namrood Mein Ishq
Aqal Hai Mehv-e-Tamasha-e-Lab-e-Baam Abhi

Love fearlessly jumped into the fire of Namrud
Intellect is absorbed in the spectacle from roof‐top still
http://iqbalurdu.blogspot.ca/2011/04/bang-e-dra-166-nala-hai-bulbul-e.html


A Poem about Ibrahim 'alayhissalam (prophet ibrahim pbuh)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zi6b6mH5jA8
!
Dhoond Ke Apni Khaak Mein Jis Ne Paya Apna Aap
Uss Bande Ki Dehqani Par Sultani Qurban

He who discovers himself in soul after a hard labour, 
Is far better than kings and monarchs.


Khudi Ki Mout Se Hindi Shikasta Balon Par
Qafas Huwa Hai Hilal Aur Ashiyana Haraam!

The self of Indians is extinct, By pinions cleft is made distinct 
For they are pleased with prison life, To break the bars they wage no strife!

http://iqbalurdu.blogspot.ca/search?q=Khudi


5 Things Everyone Should Be Grateful For Today!
 Everyone needs gratitude in their life, including, and especially those who say they have nothing to be grateful for.  Gratitude is an emotion that never does harm but always does so much good.  When you can appreciate all the things you do have, you not only feel better right away (which is the ultimate goal anyway) but you open up space to attract so much more to be grateful for. Commit to give gratitude a try for 30 days, I promise it will change your life forever.  Start with these 5 Things To Be Grateful For Today
1: You Are Alive; Let’s start at the bottom, with something we ALL take for granted. The biggest thing we usually take for granted is … OUR LIFE. Our life and the lives of those we love.
We all see examples of lives that end suddenly, and far too soon, but most of us still take our own life for granted, as if it could never happen to us, or our loved ones.
No one has any guarantee of next year, next month or even tomorrow. Be thankful for the life and time you do have, especially for those you love.
2: Your Health; If you’re like most people, your first thought when you are unwell is ‘I just want to be better’ … but when we are better, most of us, still fill our bodies with food and substances we shouldn’t, and feed our mind with negativity and stress which is not needed, and causes disease in our body.
Be grateful today that you have your health. If you have an illness or disease; be grateful for the parts of your body that ARE healthy. Those positive vibes will spread and at the very worst will make you FEEL BETTER. If you are really spreading positive vibes and gratitude for your health, chances are you can replace your prescription drugs with positive thoughts and gratitude in a very short space of time.
3: Opportunity; We live in an age abundant with opportunity. Never has there been a time in human history with more options to create your own income, do things you love, in your own way, in your own time and get paid for it. The earning potential today is virtually limitless, and unlike many years ago you do not need a fancy education to achieve it. All you need is the will to learn and a great belief in yourself.
Be grateful for the abundance of opportunities and trust your intuition on which path you should take. It might not happen right away, and you may well fail many times before you reach success, but you can ALWAYS be grateful, for there is ALWAYS opportunity to start again, and this time with more wisdom.
4. The People In Your Life; This doesn’t mean you have to feel LOVE for ALL family members and friends at ALL times. You might feel grateful for some family members who have taught you valuable life lessons (like exactly how you don’t want to be). You might be grateful for some who may have given you pain, for they made you stronger.
But most importantly be grateful for the family and friends you love the most. Those that will always stand by your side, no matter what. If you aren’t blessed to have this on your life right now, be grateful that you are on the path to becoming the person that will attract those people in your life, in the near future. Be grateful YOU can be that person to someone else, because you were shown the opposite.
5. Be Grateful For The Hard Times; The hard times are our greatest teachers, and where we grow our strength and character the most. It is certainly not easy feeling appreciative of challenging times, especially when you are in the middle of one. But if you can recall some difficult moments from your past, I’m sure you will find that, most often, those difficult times lead to something better in your life.
Life is not always easy, and that is exactly how it was meant to be. It would be a pretty boring existence if everything went exactly to plan, every time.

Be grateful for those challenges, the pain and struggle for it made you who you are today, and you are perfect, exactly as you are.
https://iamfearlesssoul.com/5-things-everyone-should-be-grateful-for-today/

“The word “depressed” is spoken phonetically as “deep rest”. We can view depression not as a mental illness, but on a deeper level, as a profound, and very misunderstood, state of deep rest, entered into when we are completely exhausted by the weight of our own identity.”




https://www.fastcompany.com/3061332/how-i-learned-to-give-a-powerful-talk-in-under-5-minutes





Zameer-E-Lala Mein Roshan Charagh-E-Arzoo Kar De
Chaman Ke Zarre Zarre Ko Shaheed-E-Justujoo Kar De

Make the lamp of desire bright in the heart of the tulip!
Make every particle of the garden a martyr to search!
http://iqbalurdu.blogspot.ca/2011/04/bang-e-dra-163-tulu-e-islam.html









Nawa Pera Ho Ae Bulbul Ke Ho Tere Taranum Se
Kabootar Ke Tan-E-Nazuk Mein Shaheen Ka Jigar Paida

Burst into song, oh nightingale! so that from your melody
The spirit of the royal falcon may arise in the delicate body of the dove!

Tere Seene Mein Hai Poshida Raaz-E-Zindagi Keh De
Musalman Se Hadees-E-Soz-O-Saaz-E-Zindagi Keh De

The secret of life is hidden in your breast—then tell it;
Tell the Muslims the account of the burning and re‐making of life.



Pare Hai Charakh-E-Neeli Faam Se Manzil Musalman Ki
Sitare Jis Ki Gard-E-Rah Hon, Woh Karwan Tu Hai

The goal of the Muslim lies beyond the blue sky;
You are the caravan, which the stars follow as dust on the road.


Hina Band-E-Uroos-E-Lala Hai Khoon-E-Jigar Tera
Teri Nisbat Baraheemi Hai, Mamaar-E-Jahan Tu Hai

The blood of your heart is the henna which decorates the tulip‐bride.
You belong to Abraham; you are the builder of the world.



Jahan-E-Aab-O-Gil Se Alam-E-Javed Ki Khatir
Nabuwat Sath Jis Ko Le Gyi Woh Armgahan Tu Hai

The One who left this world of water and clay for eternal life—
The one whom the prophethood took with it—you are that gift.
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