Good Books and Good Friends Can Make Our Year 2018
Two Important Factors; 1) The books you read, decide your future.  2) The people you spend time with will decide your future. The people who can help to make our dreams true. Stay away from the negative people as you save yourselves from wild animals. Let's think and decide to change our condition in 2018.

Six Habits For 2018
The writer was very poor for first 30 years, next 25 years research of Brian Tracy; Law of Cause and Effect; Every action has reaction. Success is not a lucky coincidence. It is the result of a deliberate and consistently implemented strategy. These are habits which make or break your life. Six Habits; Don't underestimate yourself. Count yourself the smartest and most genius. 1) Dream Big; graduation and decent job and then struggle for whole life. Those Who Were Ashamed are Already Dead. Stretch your legs according to the size of your quilt [ Don't go beyond what you can afford ]. “Stretch your arm no farther than your sleeve will reach.” The proverb advises people to stay logic about their capabilities and not to dream of things they could not achieve. It does not kill ambition but rather promotes contentment of one's own destiny. But you can take big cloth. 2) See Yourself As a Entrepreneur; quality service, good relations, right decisions; even in job. Top 3% people count themselves as corporation. Foster entrepreneur mentality. Assess to improve value. 3) Commit to Excellence; find and choose one skill of your passion and then do it; improve everyday. 4) Develop a Workaholic Mentality; use 40+ formula. 40 hours per week work for survival, after that work for your success. 59-80 hours per week is average for successful people. 5) Dedicate Yourself For Lifelong Learning; as a human, we have unlimited capability. Human brain is like muscle; it develops, when we use it. With use, it will become sharp; like in sports body acts. 30-60 minutes study everyday; one book per week; 50 books a year. Attend audio, video programs. Never use headphone during driving. Life is more important. 6) Pay Yourself First; Book; The Richest Man in Babylon. 10% of your income for investment. This is not easy; it needs strong commitment and high will power. If difficult; start from 1% and then move to 10%. Limit consumer mentality. Don't trap in Parkinson's "work expands so as to fill the time available for its completion". 'Expenses rise to meet income.' Ask experts, read books.

Goals, Stay Courageous, Attitude; Top 3 Life Lessons For 2018
WWII, Viktor Emil Frankl (26 March 1905 – 2 September 1997) was an Austrian neurologist and psychiatrist as well as a Holocaust survivor. Frankl was the founder of logotherapy, which is a form of existential analysis, the "Third Viennese School of Psychotherapy". His best-selling Book, Man's Search for Meaning (published under a different title in 1959: From Death-Camp to Existentialism, and originally published in 1946 as Trotzdem Ja Zum Leben Sagen: Ein Psychologe erlebt das Konzentrationslager, meaning Nevertheless, Say "Yes" to Life: A Psychologist Experiences the Concentration Camp) chronicles his experiences as a concentration camp inmate, which led him to discover the importance of finding meaning in all forms of existence, even the most brutal ones, and thus, a reason to continue living. Frankl became one of the key figures in existential therapy and a prominent source of inspiration for humanistic psychologists. Concentration Camp; cold and dirty place, hunger and disease; no good food, 3 deadly years where everyone was supposed to be killed anyway. Survived and learned meaning of life and happiness. Book 10 million copies sold. 

1) Strong Why and Goal; Treated sick prisoners. One patient of Typhus taught him life lesson (wars and famines disease). 30MAR he had a hope to get free, but losing hope was reason of his death. Christmas and New Year; was time of most deaths. People lost reason, hope and so their life. Viktor started book before, he wanted to complete; so with this strong why he could survive for 3 years. You won't succeed if why and goals are not clear. Getting up early in case you expect some damage if sleeping. 

2) We give meanings; We focus small situation; we value it but maximum time it's not fair. Emptiness; everything is empty, we give meaning to things. All circumstances / situations are neutral. We make it positive / negative. Loss of data in computer, Don't spoil mood if any driver overtake you. Give it positive term; may be he has some medical emergency. You have choice to give meaning. No matter how bad the situation is; you can give it positive meaning. 

3) React or Respond; Respond to make things better instead of just reacting. Don't react in bad situation otherwise it will affect your health. Dr Viktor survived for 3 years in very bad condition, why can't we stay positive and handle situation without being negative. It's not easy always. Everything can be taken away from man but one thing. The last of human freedoms to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way.

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