Pain is Pain
"The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own. No apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on, or blame. The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins."
A pet lover was walking with his pet. He noticed a pet crying on a distance. When he approached, he saw an old man reading newspaper and his pet was crying beside him. He asked the old man, sir, your pet is crying, why are you not doing something for your pet. The old man replied, leave it, it is crying all the time. You can find people in your circle, who are habitual to cry all the time. The pet lover asked the old man, anyway we may help this pet. Why is he crying? The old man replied, the wooden floor where pet is laying, over there is a nail. That is the reason, the pet is crying. The pet lover asked the old man, why is pet not moving from there. The old man replied, the nail is very small and it is not paining much to dog. In real life, many times, we live life like that. Our issues, our problems are like nail. But we wait until we get enough pain that we move and take action. Get fit to live healthy life. If we become sure that if we will not manage time for exercise, we will become sick, we will surely manage it. We will list our priorities. Priority list will show our lifestyle. Health, family, learning and personal development may be the main priorities. Otherwise will be follow the crying pet. Majority of the people have victim mentality. Gift yourself today, take 100% responsibility of your life. 90% people blame to their mother, father, school, city, government. You cannot change your life until you are blaming someone else. Every failure is acceptable, it's learning process. But once you blame someone else, learning process stops. Learn to take charge of your life and stop complaining. Complaining is wastage of your time and energy. Invest your time and energy in finding solutions. Let's be more solution oriented.

An-Nisa (The Women) 4:112

4:112 But he who commits a fault or a sin and then throws the blame therefore on an innocent person, burdens himself with the guilt of calumny and [yet another] flagrant sin.
Al-Ahzab (The Confederates) 33:58

33:58 And as for those who malign believing men and believing women without their having done any wrong - they surely burden themselves with the guilt of calumny, and [thus] with a flagrant sin!

Hide the good you do, and make known the good done to you.

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