3 Pillars of Confidence
Your Personal Development depends upon your Self Esteem; Self Confidence and Self Believe. What you think and feel about you.
Depression, Suicide and Violence are also connected to Self Esteem. Helping yourself first is the best option. Otherwise you will not be able to help others. If we cannot help ourselves, then very difficult to help others too. Same is effect of low confidence. If we don't have confidence on ourselves, then how others will trust us. We can have our self esteem high to perform more efficiently. Here are three pillars; 1) Living Consciously; Compare your day you spent out of town; how active time that was, you met many people. You visited many places. But we don't spend our day at home town in that style. We unconsciously travel to some place. Normally, we start living like robot, we never live in the present moment. We have no quality time with family, at home, in office. This ends up getting disturbed in personal and professional life with low productivity. Eat, Work, Sleep, .....
Living in the present moment people have high Self Esteem, high self confidence; they live life at fullest potential and are more productive.
2) Self Acceptance; We take normal problems serious unnecessarily. We become low confident, low self esteem, awkward, introvert, under confident and we lose many opportunities. Learn to Accept Yourself, 'As Is'. Height, color, weight is not important; important is confidence.
There are two types of situations in life; a) Take action and change the things; e.g, over weight can be controlled through exercise and good diet b) Sometimes you cannot things; low height genetically. Now prove the importance of great thinking and taking action. Don't make excuse of the low height.
3) Self Assertiveness; People are of two types; a) Passive (not able to say 'No', not able to complaint a problem, they do things that others want, not able to do what they want. b) Aggressive; Do just what they want, they say, 'No', they complaint, People will find them very rude.
Be Assertive means balance; Not Passive, Not Aggressive. Does what he want but without being rude. Here Self Esteem and Self Confidence will be high.
Book: Six Pillars of Self Esteem

The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem
1. The Practice of Living Consciously
2. The Practice of Self-Acceptance
3. The Practice of Self-Responsibility
4. The Practice of Self-Assertiveness
5. The Practice of Living Purposefully
6. The Practice of Personal Integrity

Failure is Experience
2001 year of change. 2005-2006 one more failure. 3-5 min loading time was reduced to few seconds. Limited himself.

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