How To Set Better Goals; Book Mentioned: “The Code of the Extraordinary Mind: 10 Unconventional Laws to Redefine Your Life and Succeed On Your Own Terms”.
Make three columns on a paper; 
Column 1; what experiences I want to have in life; what lifestyle I like, what are my liking; what type of accomplishments I want to make; what type of achievements I want to make. Most of the experiences we want, require no money. Our mistake is; we relate everything to money.
Column 2; with all these experiences, how can I grow. We as a human being have a soul to grow. How can I grow as a better person; better father, better spouse, skills, languages, speeches etc. Very few people realize that growth is a goal in itself. This growth is driving force which keep us moving as a human being. The system with forced learning makes many of us dread in learning.
Column 3; now with all these experiences and growth, how can I get back to my people, community, society, world. The rule is; if you want to be happy, make others happy. This would truly lead  to fulfillment beyond happiness. This will take your growth, experiences and will contribute to your fellow souls, human race. Use your skills; mentor someone, deliver your skills to inspire people. Your list of contributions will become your list of steps for you to give back to the world. This will take you to beyond your happiness into fulfillment.
This three column sheet is your goal list. This will lead you to many short-cuts which will by-pass many unnecessary detours; a straight path to contribute, to true human fulfillment.

Aaj Bhi Jo Baraheem (A.S.) Ka Imaan Paida
Aag Kar Sakti Hai Andaz-e-Gulistan Paida

But if the faith of Abraham there, once again, is born, Where leaps this flame, flowers will bloom, and laugh its blaze to scorn.

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